decalexas:

when u catch urself thinking wistfully about dating and being in love and being c*ddled and how nice that would be

kermapippurisaatana:

mivykitty:

thehiddenranter:

trashmouse:

regzillas:

goingtohellgobigorgohome:

working-dreamer:

Unpopular Opinion:

Tumblr’s “walking on eggshells” and “one strike, you’re out” mentality is really really immature.

Reblog if ya agree.

Another unpopular opinion:

The “You can apologize, beg for forgiveness, and change your ways all you want but it won’t change a thing cause you’re still horrible vile trash that deserves to die a fiery death” mentality is really harmful, scary, disgusting, and will probably get someone killed, be it by someone else’s hand or their own

yet another unpopular opinion: the ‘unproblematic fav’ mentality is really bad because you’re putting an individual up on a pedestal and treating them like a deity of sorts and forgetting that they too are human beings and make mistakes.

Another unpopular opinion: Not every mistake is the Worst Thing Ever.  Sometimes people make small mistakes, and sometimes ignorance is a small mistake, and they do not need to grovel and beg and apologize perfectly because in the scheme of things it was a small mistake that didn’t even seriously hurt anyone, outside of tumblr’s performative moral outrage being offended.

These are all extremely valid unpopular opinions.

here’s Another unpopular opinion: when someone becomes successful the need to rifle through someone’s pasts posts/tweets/Facebook post to find the One Thing™️ they did wrong and shame them then lead a witch hunt for their coerce apology. Followed by working to destroy their future needs to stop. People say dumb and ignorant things, but can learn from them. There are certainly people who don’t, and they should be held accountable. But more often than not the ones that are dragged are people who said/wrote something bad once or twice back at a time when they were a different person. Tumblr and now twitter need to learn that people do change, and usually the bigotry is environmental.

Digging through someone’s past to find that One Thing™️ to drag them about and cripple their future shows more about the digger than the person they’re attacking. Jealousy is the most vile thing in this world.

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